mashed up thoughts by rose

It is important to realise that regardless of gender, age, race and education there are horrible people.  However, it is also important to remember that there are equally amazing men and women out there that would make a perfect partner or friend for life. How do you find these amazing people? is a very good question. I have no idea, I just know that once in a while, they come out of their usual hidden hangout spots to new and casual places and it's near impossible to tell them apart from the crowd. So maybe go out more to places where the vibes are good, where people of similar interests hang out like martial arts class or etc.. you get the idea  I found this quite enlightening and it makes bad interactions with people less significant because you know there are better people out there. I hope that you do not hate a whole category of people for the couple or plenty of bad experiences, it's just life. There are plenty of good people out there but they're just difficult to f...

 I've always liked speaking but often find myself pretty shy, nervous or soo disorganised in thought that what I want to say rarely comes out in the way that I mean. That being said, I should be more comfortable posting my views online right? Nope, I'm even more nervous about posting things on social media. I find that social media has taken a very extreme stance on opinions. It's like opinions can only be either right or wrong but nothing in between because that shouldn't exist. I'm pretty sure it is likely due to the fact that those are the kind of content that the algorithms favour. Extreme right or left content are usually VERY clickbait and attracts a lot of viewers, the kind that would either a)leave a 100% agreeable comment or b)something super nasty which gives most content creators what they need is engagement in order to make money on social media such as Instagram, Youtube and etc. It is and has been very difficult to find very popular and entertaining mi...

being yourself is good, just make sure you don't do illegal stuff and be prepared to be criticized for just being you because in this society that we live in people hate what they can't understand and what they find too different.

You never know how much the little words you say could affect someone. I make it a point to try and make sure I never say anything that will hurt anyone I meet but I suck at it, I'm human, I make mistakes. 

Never put your happiness in the palm of another person's hand because no matter how careful they are there will always be a day when a mistake is made. The lifespan of a human is finite, what happens when they leave? Best to learn how to be happy by yourself before being with that person that adds on to your happiness 

I like to think that when good people die they become guardian angels for someone. so maybe someone has someone famous as their guardian angel?

Being too fat is bad, being too thin is bad being too friendly has its own problems, being too antisocial has problems being too smart has its own problems, being too dumb has problems being popular has its problems, being unpopular has its problems being yourself is a problem, being someone else is a problem there's a problem in every thing you have too much of and there's a problem if you lose yourself trying to fit into this world. Sometimes we can't help it. Sometimes we can help it and if we can help it, we should. We should try to find that in between spot that helps us have a better life. If you want to change, change for the better, change to make the world a better place and to have a better quality of life. Don't ever change because someone doesn't like you or the way you look. Change because you want to make yourself a better person but just remember to find to middle spot so that you get the best result of the change.

 too much of a good thing is bad and too little of a good thing is bad too, you just need to find that sweet spot that's in between the too much and too little to fully enjoy life.

Always be ahead of everything. Be ahead of your teachers in school to help you do better in your academics and in sports always practice an extra hour if you want to be better than those around you. If you ambitious than go a head and do many more hours of practice because practice makes perfect and no matter how talented or gifted a person may seem, without practice, they won't be any better than you.

college is the best time in life to reinvent yourself mostly because you're going to feel like you've got a fresh new start in life. You can make yourself into a more outgoing person or a person who's going to do much better in their academics

I don't know about you but I think many of us have a tiny voice in our head that likes to tell us things like how we're going to have a good day or maybe the day can't get better than this but that voice, that says so many good things is also the same voice that can make a bad day worse. It's important to try to block off the bad and unnecessary thoughts because they will never help you get anywhere in life. It definitely won't be easy to block of negative thoughts just like that, it will take time but the end result will be worth it. It's partially the reason why I made this blog.